Showing posts with label STF Meeting Summaries. Show all posts
Showing posts with label STF Meeting Summaries. Show all posts

January 30, 2009

Summary of our 2nd STF Meeting

We had a fantastic second STF meeting last night; there were 7 of us in attendance and all contributed greatly to its success. I had planned somewhat of a meeting agenda which we followed quite nicely with some twists and turns along the way. In the end, we covered everything we intended to plus a whole lot more.

Julie for instance shared with us her incredible experience of attending the Presidential inauguration last week with her girls. We were riveted by her stories… which included staying on the same floor of the hotel as the entire ABC news crew. (I love me some George Stephanopoulos, did you know he’s married to a comedienne?) She did meet Robin Roberts face to face and says she is as lovely and beautiful in person as she is on our family room TV’s each weekday morning! Of course the best stories were about the people, the inclusiveness, the balls, the Obama’s and the hope! Thanks Julie, that was a real treat.

We discussed the meeting schedule and decided for now to stay the course and meet every other week. Our next meeting will be on Thursday 2/12 at my house again.

Activity… yes, we discussed that nasty little word again! Our thought was to choose a class at either Matt Ross or Tomahawk CC the morning of Super bowl Sunday. That way we can pig out later with a little less guilt! But I just got off the site(s) and personally none of the morning classes appeal to me, (Bootcamp, Cycling). There is a Pilate’s class this evening, short notice I know, at 5:30 (MRCC), I’d be willing to start my weekend off right by going to it. Call or email me ASAP if you want to come.

A quick blogging lesson was included last night as well. Everyone was shown how easy it is to post and I also tried to really encourage all of you to use the “comments” section beneath each post. Participation is essential for this group to have long-term success. You’ve all got to be tired of just seeing my ramblings on here… this is “our” blog… so blog already! Or at least comment on those who do.

Something else we incorporated into our meeting was a “Show and Tell”. This proved to be a great way to share with each other products that work for us. We had Steel Cut Oats, 3 different kinds of protein/fiber bars; Robin shared a product by Kellogg’s called “Special K20 Protein Water Mix” which she adds to her water bottle. It helps to get her water in for the day and has 5 grams of protein too. And of course I shared the infamous “Milled Flax Seed” with everyone! If you have something you’re using that helps you get through the day, bring it along to the next meeting to share.

Another idea we came up with was to each set one goal to work on until we meet again. They ran the gamut; mine in retrospect was pretty lame… read more of Bob Green’s book. Beth’s was very aggressive; she plans to work out 5 times a week. Go Beth, go! These set goals fit nicely with our attitude that incorporating change into our daily lives will not overwhelm us, but in fact be the catalysts of a healthier and therefore thinner version of ourselves.

Judy shared a real eye opener with us last night as well. She’s the one you might recall who first told us about Fitday.com I added it to the sidebar under “Links we Love” after the first meeting but quite frankly never really checked it out too thoroughly. Judy says that she never really considered herself an over-eater. But when she took the time to utilize the Fitday.com tools, she quickly realized it wasn’t how much she ate but what she ate. Fitday.com is big on Pie Charts… when you plug in what you ate all day and hit the enter button, there is no denying the pie chart. It clearly shows that out of the total calories you consumed that day, where it is they came from. In Judy’s case it was heavily weighted in carbs. Her fruits and veggies were nominal at best. She has since made a conscious effort to eat less carbs, more fibrous fruits and veggies, and the good news is she’s not depriving herself of food, just making smarter choices. Check out the site, you have to join (it’s free), so you have yet another user I.D. and password to remember. But like most things worth doing, it’s going to take a little initial work to get started. Judy says push through it and give it a shot… it’s a great tool.

One of the more animated discussions we had last night was to add a “Social Calendar” to our group. Get your calendars out girls because we are going to Fleetwood Mac at the Sprint Center on Friday, May 8th! This will be a little tricky getting organized, it sounds like it will be a big group… feel free to include some friends, even your skinny ones!

Another night out we are considering is a “Martini-Madness” at the Culinary Center of Kansas City in March. You know what they say… “One martini is all right. Two are too many and three are not enough!” I will be challenging myself to figure out how to create an interactive calendar to put on this site so we can plan these social outings.

And the last order of business last night was our surprise Guest Speaker, drum roll please…. My main man Mikey! Mike being an engineer, understands the fine workings of “things”, be it a power plant or the complex human body. He has read the Dr. Oz book “You on a Diet” and although most of that stuff goes right over my head, it doesn’t Mike’s. We learned about the Hypothalamus which is a tiny portion of the brain which controls among other things, hunger and thirst. (Ok… sex drive too!) This is where I will now stubbornly explain to you the benefits of coming to the meetings; I am not going to even begin to explain here what we learned last night from Mikey, but suffice it to say you should stock up on almonds!

That’s it… you still with me? That was a lot to cover, I’m mentally exhausted now! Let me know if anyone is game for Pilate’s tonight, I’m sure it will take someone stepping up to the plate for me to actually commit to it myself on a Friday evening. Tomorrow is out for me, Sunday we already discussed; this is probably my only option for a “group” activity.

Oh… dang. You know I never end it when I say I’m going to end it. One more tidbit of info; I am going to create another (interactive) spreadsheet for us to track our weight loss on. It’s clear from the meeting that everyone wants us to have a way to track our success, pitfalls, and accountability. It will be very simple, once a week you weigh and report the results. We don’t need your actual weight, just the results. So watch for that, it will be on the sidebar as well.

Ok, I’m really done now!

Except for this footnote: Kathy and I will definitely be at Pilate's tonight; 5:30 at the MRCC. The cost is 5 buckaroos and the laughs are priceless. Please join us if you can!



January 15, 2009

And So We Begin...

What a great group! Last night was our first STF gathering and it was better than I’d even hoped. New friends were made, a few tears shed and many, many laughs were shared! They say the first step is the hardest; well this was more than just a step we took, it was truly a leap of faith. To sit in someone’s (almost clean but toasty warm) living room with people who in some cases you were meeting for the first time to share your personal stories with, proved I think to be very liberating for all of us. If you missed it, come on to the next one (1/29 @ 6:30, venue yet to be decided) and be a part of this energetic, inspiring, fun group!

In the meantime, continue to check this site. There will eventually be several contributors but until we all put our techie-hats on, I’ll be doing most of the posting. The goal however is for any member to access the blog and share their story, maybe a great tip they have, a recipe or new gadget… anything that may help us achieve our goals and keep us motivated is game.

You will notice along the sidebar to the right are various fields. Let me explain what those are about.

Our Journey. This is a list of who is a member of the STF blog. Of course you don’t have to be a member to view it, but to contribute to it you do. Click on the name of a member and you will see her profile.

Blog Archive. Pretty self explanatory.

Categories. As the content of this blog grows, categorizing each post becomes more important. If down the road you are looking for something and you know Kim (for instance) posted it, you can click on “Kim” and only her posts will come up. That helps to narrow your search. I intend to create a category for each member as they submit posts. We might have Recipes, Fitness tips, Success stories, Rants (my fav!)… whatever! Again… it’s a WP (work in progress!).

Blogs We Like. This is where we shamelessly promote other blogs. I use the word shameless because at the moment you’ll notice the only blog on there is mine! I love blogging and quite frankly I miss it, but time has gotten away from me and so too has my blog. I intend to correct that soon… STF will probably give me a lot of new material… just saying!

Links We Love. This is going to be great. Click on the links and see what they have to offer. Judy gave us a great one at the meeting last night, it’s called FitDay.com. Julie told us about MyRecipe.com which offers a healthy cooking section; I’ll be adding both of those links today. Keep your eyes and ears open for others that we can benefit from, they’re out there.

Sitemeter. Scroll down to the very bottom of the blog and you’ll see where I added Sitemeter. This is a tool that tracks our web traffic. It’s fun to watch how many people are tuning in, but in the spirit of full disclosure, I started the counter at 100. 24 (our current count) may not be too impressive now but my ChrissyCanCant blog has an amazing 15,127 hits on it. (Thanks Mom and Dad!)

Bottom line, this blog is one more tool in our arsenal. Ideally we love getting together for some face time, and planning group activities around fitness is something we’re all looking forward to. But when life gets in the way, and we can’t make those times work, we’ll have our STF blog to keep us connected. The common theme I heard over and over last night from the group is this… None of us want to be tied to a number, a size or an unrealistic expectation any longer. Instead, we all have our number one goal set as better health, which will only be achieved with better habits. Eating wiser and moving more, that’s it. We’re not here to reinvent the wheel, the wheel is fine. It’s our tires that need rotated.

Change our mindset, change our lives.
Let’s do this!